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Showing posts with label mind setting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mind setting. Show all posts

Life is like a jigsaw puzzle

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Life is like a jigsaw puzzle.

The good news is you get to decide what the picture looks like. Sure, you're dealt a specific set of circumstances at the start, but change is constant.

The bad news is the picture gets put together anyway, even if you don't do anything. You can go through your whole life just going with the flow. But you may end up not liking the outcome.


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On Expenses, Passion and Savings

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On Expenses, Passion and Savings  In the end what matters most is that you are able afford the life you really want.  Sometimes that involves a lot of sacrifices, especially when it comes to expensive future goals - house, tuition, etc.  But it's not a bad idea to indulge your passions as long as your goals aren't jeopardized. Who knows, they might be expenses now but income streams in the future.
If you've read a lot of personal finance articles or attended seminars on the same, you've probably become aware of a few similarities.

For one, starbucks is a popular target. Inevitably, a quick summation of designer coffee expenses is bandied around.

After that, the "list" usually includes gadgets, shoes, clothes, and high-end (or high-priced) food.

There's probably a good reason for that. Keeping finances in check is the first step towards financial independence. You can't invest without money and how can you have money if you don't save, right?

But life is usually more complex than what we are able to verbalize. And the same is true in this case.
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The Comprehensive Guide To Breaking Bad Habits And Making Good Habits Last For Good

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The Comprehensive Guide To Breaking Bad Habits And Making Good Habits Last For Good.  We all have bad habits. Sometimes we call them weaknesses. And the best long-term solution is usually not to avoid them but to get to the root cause and deal with that instead.
Unfortunately, it's going to be another one of those rambling, self-absorbed posts. But if you stick with it, I promise it's actually helpful.

So I've had a spending problem for a few months.

Nothing big. I was still saving for retirement, the emergency fund, college education, yada yada yada. The problem was my personal savings.

After all those other savings, I've got a little left for myself. It's usually for direct stock investment, mini-mergencies, and the like. Ultimately, it's going to be my seed money for a potential business.

The problem started at Christmas. I normally, and on purpose, spend a lot on gifts plus occassional treats - both for myself and others.

I was able to still save half my 13th-month pay, but noticed I was spending what was supposed to be my personal savings. It didn't bother me during the holidays, but then it spilled over into January... then February... and even up to mid-March.

For some reason, my saving habit was backsliding. Anything I didn't pay myself first was getting spent. After years of not having that problem, I was very curious - and more than a little anxious - as to why that was the case.

So I did some research and found some interesting things.
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Ownership, Stewardship, and Entitlement

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Ownership, Stewardship, and Entitlement.   We can sometimes get lost in the feelings of ownership and entitlement. We feel entitled to what we own, and do not think twice about what we do with it.   We are not here simply to live and pass away for nothing. If we are to make progress in our lives, we must think of ourselves as stewards. We must recognize that life is more than what we see and have right now.
Disclosure: This article was originally written for and published in Each Peso Counts. Sadly, the blog isn't around anymore.

Companies typically have what they call core values. And in one of my previous companies, one of the core values was stewardship.

I still remember our executive talking about it. He explained that we should act not as employees but as part owners of the company. That we should take responsibility and help in the growth and success of the company because we should realize that the company's success is our success.

But recently, I began to understand this more deeply after reading a quote from Jaime Augusto Zobel de Ayala on the importance of stewardship in the continued success of Ayala Corporation:
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1 Good Technique To Stop Worrying And Start Doing

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1 Good Technique To Stop Worrying and Start Doing.   At various points in your lives, there are always things that make us question if we're going to get through them. From projects, finals and removal exams to deadlines, debt, tuition and mortgage.  Invariably though, we get through them one way or another. But regardless of that fact, worrying is unavoidable.  Even though it shouldn't be. "If it's not your problem, don't make it your problem." "Can I do anything about it?"
At various points in our lives, there are always things that make us question if we're going to get through them. From projects, finals and removal exams to deadlines, debt, tuition and mortgage.

Invariably though, we get through them one way or another. But regardless of that fact, worrying is unavoidable.

Even though it shouldn't be.
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